Many Love by Sophie Lucido Johnson

Many Love by Sophie Lucido Johnson

Author:Sophie Lucido Johnson
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Touchstone


I met Bob at a summer arts camp where we both worked. I’d been seeing my partner Luke for almost a year at that point, and Bob was the first new person I was interested in since the beginning of my and Luke’s time together. Integrating Bob into my love life wasn’t easy; there were a lot of conversations and a lot of jealousy, but I’d like to fast-forward to the good part, just for the purposes of sexual exploration. I’ll get back to the superfun jealousy stuff later, I promise.

Bob and I talked about sex as soon as we started kissing. We wrote long emails to each other about sex that were almost clinical at first, asking questions like a med-school student trying to impress a doctor. I went back through our email threads while writing this book and found so much that impresses me. At one point I wrote, “An erection is not necessary for a great time; I’ve come to be one of those people who thinks there’s too much pressure on penetrative sex, and that it can be kind of a downer for both parties.” Great point, Past Sophie! When we had sex for the first time, Bob knew more about what I liked than most of the people I’d dated long-term had. As a result, the sex was very good. It continued to be good. Actually, it only got better.

Luke and I communicated about sex, too—a lot. We also had tremendously good sex. But there were some fundamental sex-communication questions that Luke and Bob each answered differently. For example:



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